Saturday, April 13, 2013

In the week of Feb 18-22 We learned about the transition their is in marriage as they begin to have kids. I am so grateful to know so much about what really happens between a couple as their family starts to grow and what things I can have control over now. Most people divorce between the first 2 or so years of a marriage, when their children start to leave home for college or get married, or when their is an empty nest (when children no longer live with parents). Knowing these are some of the most critical moments in a marriage can help us apply things that will keep our marriage satisfied and keep ourselves close to our spouse. It turns out their is really a lot of miscommunication between a couple because having children is not easy for neither of them and they get tired they are being pulled apart in different directions but as a couple we can help each other by being aware of the challenges. Mothers can take every little opportunity for prenatal involvement for the father, make sure to express gratitude and not always correct spouse let them know they are appreciated. Men can try to always be engaged when mom wakes up to watch baby so that he can also be able to bond with the baby :) I love this class! Their are many little things we can do as a couple to have a healthy relationship and to grow together with our children.

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